Black Monks :
There was/is a person named the real rugby manager, or something like that, with the picture of the game icon as their photo, nothing said or done by anyone because nobody thought they were the real rugby manager. If it was something else so be it, but the optics appear to be caer spoke so caer was banned. The name was non offensive, not confusing to anyone and all in good fun (or it seemed that way to me). Rapid bans for small stuff (all I saw was not giving respect to carshalton which should not result in a ban in and of itself) is what killed this community once, we almost have it alive again so please don't kill it again.
As I've said, a ban on a member will not be discussed with third parties, it's entirely inappropriate; the reasons for a ban on another member are nothing to do with anyone else. I will say that it was absolutely nothing to do with anything said to Carshalton or any other mod, though, and I have already said it's nothing to do with the username. That is where discussion of the ban has to end, I'm afraid.
As to what was killing the community, it was some appalling behaviour from a handful of repeat offenders that drove many members away. A return to that will not be tolerated, but equally there is no intention not to allow everyone to participate and have fun.